Heart over Mind

An excellent boxer is the one who uses more brain/mind over the one who's emotions and his heart takes over the fight.
The best way of not buying a car you dont need,  just decline the offer to test drive it.
Most children/teens who have a problem staying single are the one's who are not doing well/failling at school. The A class student are wise enough to know that a boy or girlfriend will divide my mind and attention more than it has been divided by books.
It's always easy to be emotional than to think about a way out of a situation.
When a boy/girl say to an insecure/ D class child "you beautiful, I love you" they actually get  a sence of belonging and their mind simply seizes to function/ think and concentrate on finding ways and means to always appeal to the one who said they are beautiful. They will despise their parents/ guardians for that boy or girl who said they beautiful. Their half empty mind jumps and say here is a person coming to fill the void in me and top me up(pre paid).
They are the one's you will find in the street corners kissing, drinking in the public parks and paying no attention to elderly people.
The A class children might give a shocking answer, you will think they are full of themselves "what makes you think I dont know that" , 3D answer, lights out. They know that  they have something important in them, they might not know what it is because they young, but their mind quickly say " what do you want from me"?

As a child you only need to be sober all the time, becareful of messed up kids who does not want to go down the drain by them selves, but want to drag the D class, half empty minded you with them. Refuse to fill part of your life with relationship love when you cannot accomordate what you learning at school for your future.
Most of the kids think they are doing  their parents a favour, not knowing that your parents/ guardians are just a support system for you, they are more like wheels and you are the car, imagine a car without wheels, it can start but it's not going nowhere. How do you know all this? I was once young, half empty minded and stupid...
QB Mthethwa