I'm not perfect and so are you

I've seen people making the worse mistakes of their lives, mistakes that leads to divorce.
They focus their energy on what is not working forgetting that there is so much that is going right in their love life.
Positive communications and praise brings the best in everyone, blame and degradation brings doubt and low self esteem in the best people ever to live.
I bet we still have an opportunity to waste or make the best out of it, only we can make that choice.
When I said I love you we did not have a house to fight about and if that does not bring peace, let there be no house.
I loved when there was no social media, and social media can leave us alone if it's not here to make our lives better.
I loved you  even more with your daughter, and you still loved me when I said I have kids from my past relationships and one day I would love us to be a one big happy family.
Let the children strengthen our relationship as we understand they are in our lives for a short while but we have each other forever.
Give me a hint, a clue on what I keep on  missing time and again so I can take a three year course at Harvard, Oxford or Wits to perfect it once and for all.
I will never be perfect and so are you.
If we could celebrate love living under the bridge, why allow a liking roof to destroy our marriage.
Help me in my weakness and I will celebrate you strength and success.
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I'm still standing:

Truth is, God is good. I didn't pay much attention in my life as a youth and ended up doing many right things before their time which automatically put me in a disadvantage position, but his faithfulness and love rescued me.
People use you because of the good PR of your brand to enhance their image, brand association depends on how good is your brand reputation.
God uses you as a vessel, because what is important is how good God is than how good you are.
When God send you on an assignment, never look at yourself because you will find nothing worthy, but look at the opportunity of representing the kingdom of God.
Nando's on a take away is as nice as it is on a plate, the vessel is not important but the content.
As a vessel I'm always amazed just like you are when God use me in a public platform. It's not about me, it's about God and his kingdom.
Proverbs3:5 trust is the Lord and lean not on your own understanding......

God is not pleased with your thoughts and words

I don't like white people who uses the word of God to oppress black people, I hate it.
Every white person who still feels that in 2016, biblical or by any standard we are not equal, has a right to leave this country of black people and go where that is practised.
It is not practical to segregate, divide and rule South Africa, we are far better than that.
Talking from the pulpit about black people and tarnishing their image is not different from the people who have expressed themselves about black people on social media.
Black people are not lazy!!
Every brick that built Johannesburg, Durban, Capetown, Bloemfontein and many towns is South Africa was build by the hand of a black man, and we had to have permission to be in those cities after building them.
Every rail you see in our country was laid by the hands of a black man.
Every field you see, a black man busy it and it produces the GDP of this country.
Every sugar cane across our country was planted and it is still maintained and cut down by a black man.
We have build every school and university and our fathers were not even allowed entry in those institutions.
They are little foxes that is spoiling our vines and they comes from the angles that we have never expected because of trust.
Is it still true that eve men was made at the image and likeness of God?
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A day well spent

A day well spent motivating students from various High Schools #Geluksdalhigh#Urekahigh. 1 Thank Mrs Peterson on the pic. 2Mr Peterson the Principal of Geluksdal Hihg School. My daughter Sbusisiwe Mthethwa on the gray hood sweater.3 All the students for lending me an ear.

How great is our God

Nor matter how expensive your dress/ suit is, nor matter how many coats you put on, you will always be naked in the eyes of a person you have slept with, including all those he/ she has told about your secret rumble in the jungle

Other people see Gucci, Armani, Hugo, Tlale, buttons and he/ she see muscles, curves, shades, tattoos, body scars, that walk of shame, courageous face, I shouldn't have been the victim after all I know laughter, how could I be so foolish look, you will never see this again attitude, close the door on your way out smile, how does the hunter becomes the hunted walk, so whats next glance, I'm not interested face, I'm stupid sigh.

Sin makes you smart before you commit it and show you how stupid you are after you have committed it.
Where would we be without the Grace Of God.
"what is mankind that you are mindful of them, human beings that you care for them"? Psalm8:4
The evil one lost the battle at Calvary.
 "I, even I, am he who blots out your transgressions, for my own sake, and remembers your sins no more". Isaiah43:25
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Life does not need us we need it

Life is not hard, but it wants you to be counted amongst those credited for cracking its code. If life was easy you wouldn't be counted smart or intelligent. Life want those who dares to begin and it will also start unfolding the best for you.
You think life is hard when you inside, paying salaries and taking risks, try it from the out side where you earn a salary and it's never enough, bills on the phone chasing you and stress is ready to well come you.
With God things can happen at his command, but then you will be invisible, null and void.
Today we are able to say you build London bridge, designed Sandton Mall(JHB) or stature of liberty(NY)
Life is not hard, it's just want to credit you with a marit.....
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This means WAR

I've been hurting and I'm still hurting and bleeding inside. The world we live in wants me to give up on you and hand you over to the government. Unfortunately you are my child and I am your parent, we can't and can never give up on each other.
Drugs have taken over you, alcohol keeps you warm and cigarette keeps you thinking. I have to hide things in the house, I can't leave money laying around like I did when you were 5yrs of age.
You have become our own Gumtree, sometimes OLX or letgo. You rob your own home like a thief and bite the hand that feeds you, to support and feed this demon inside of you.
Well!!!, I guess "This means WAR"
I am not going or about to give up on you, as this is the time you need me even more than before.
I have rolled my sleeves to work with you and show you the way to the right direction.
Life is complicated and we are all doing our best.
I will fight side by side with you, and even fight with you sometimes just to bring the point across to your sanity.
Indeed!! I guess "This means WAR"
I want you to dream without the help of a substance.
I want you to have positive vision of your life and do something to get there.
I am your present visible help that God has made available for you.
The world makes you think I'm your no1 enemy and I want to control your life.
It is double selfish to indulge yourself and abuse cheap/ expensive drugs and alcohol, because had I your parent chose the same selfish way, you wouldn't be here or be born.
My little girl, man are sexual being and that's all they want from you.
You dress to kill just to impress a blesser, where did my little girl go?
you sleep through out the day only to be nocturnal. Well I guess "This means WAR"
This is a good fight I am prepared to fight as I don't want to fail on the assignment God trusted me with, to bring you up and show you direction.
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