I do not wish for anyone to have a child out of wedlock because it never end well, and marks the beginning of a long challenging life for many, with high impact on the child.
I have been there and no one should experience that.
Every child deserves a stable, warm and a loving home. The challenge start when you stoped playing games and you finally found yourself someone to spend your life with, but you don't know how are they gonna treat your child, or how your child is gonna react to them.
Children from previous relationships suffer internal bleeding.
Other people don't like kids, not because they hate them, but would rather cook or clean than entertain kids. A child can sense tension about him or her in the house, then silly mistakes start happening because he or she is not free, glasses start to break, dishes not washed properly, any Innocent look from a child raises concern.
The child just gets totally clumsy and that, becomes a point of departure, "I'm good for nothing" that's what goes on their mind.
A child is like a blank diary that we as parents write on everyday, crafting and preparing them for the future. Our positive words of wisdom and warm gestures will serve as a guide in their life of choice.
My question is, what guide will negative words and emotional abuse be to a child?.
Many seniors parents today boast more about their adopted children than their own biological children, they get frequent visits, more money, love and care from these children.
Many parents make a mistake of treat children as per their colleague's experience, not knowing that person's method of parenting.....TBC
QB Mthethwa
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