IT'S NOT PERSONAL MY SISTER, MY DAUGHTER, IT'S A WAKEUP CALL!

Women always get emotional and upset about men not being talked to enough just like they do to them.
Young girls complain that every meeting about self control is targeted at them.
The boys are always left to do as they  please and no one pays attention to them as they do to girls .
Your parents made mistakes, how stupid can you get to fall in the same trap?
Many women will tell you how difficult it was for them to get their qualifications after their families disowned them.They would talk about how difficult it is to raise a child on their own!

Everybody says she/ he is cute, and you are saying inside "cute does not have food, nappies, cosmetics and more"
When somebody buys you lunch, you wish they could give you that money because "cute" needs things you can not afford to provide.

LET'S CONSIDER THESE FEW THINGS:

Who gets pregnant?
Who gets to miss a year of school, postpone her graduation?
Who gets sleepless nights with a child,while a boy enjoys peaceful sleep with another girl?
Who gets her body disfigured?
Who gets to think about what the baby is going to eat?
Who makes sure that the baby's food is there always?
Who gets to send messages to the boy, trying to get him to come and see the child, not to mention bring the milk?
Guess who is going to get bitter as she loses friends with vision and wisdom?
Guess who is going to say, "they think they are better", when friends find other friends to hang out with?
Guess who is going to be heartbroken when the boy snaps and says " I never said get pregnant, you cramping my style telling people we have a baby?
NB: No boy has ever taken a break from school, varsity because his girlfriend was pregnant.
You suddenly have to change clothes you can't afford, for the sake of the baby you can't afford and the father who can not afford.
"Why is everybody/ my parents have to think of the worst case always, who said I was planning to get pregnant any way?"
That's how every girl thinks just before it happens, just before the boom that will change and transform your life explodes in your face.

Wiseup girls, women and sisters!
That temporary pleasure  brings long term commitment,a painful journey with an innocent child!
Look into your family, relatives, community and society  you live in and see if you really like what you see.
Make a choice with your mind and not the heart when it comes to longterm investments and journey.
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