I'm not perfect and so are you

I've seen people making the worse mistakes of their lives, mistakes that leads to divorce.
They focus their energy on what is not working forgetting that there is so much that is going right in their love life.
Positive communications and praise brings the best in everyone, blame and degradation brings doubt and low self esteem in the best people ever to live.
I bet we still have an opportunity to waste or make the best out of it, only we can make that choice.
When I said I love you we did not have a house to fight about and if that does not bring peace, let there be no house.
I loved when there was no social media, and social media can leave us alone if it's not here to make our lives better.
I loved you  even more with your daughter, and you still loved me when I said I have kids from my past relationships and one day I would love us to be a one big happy family.
Let the children strengthen our relationship as we understand they are in our lives for a short while but we have each other forever.
Give me a hint, a clue on what I keep on  missing time and again so I can take a three year course at Harvard, Oxford or Wits to perfect it once and for all.
I will never be perfect and so are you.
If we could celebrate love living under the bridge, why allow a liking roof to destroy our marriage.
Help me in my weakness and I will celebrate you strength and success.
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